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A listener production.
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Hey guys, you're listening to Crappy to Happy. I'm cash done.
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I'm a clinical and coaching psychologist, a mindfulness meditation teacher,
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and author of the Crappy to Happy books. In this series,
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we look at all of the factors that might be
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making you feel crappy and give you the tools and
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the techniques that will help you to overcome them. In
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each episode, I introduce you to interesting, inspiring, intelligent people
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who are experts in their field, and my hope is
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that they will help you feel less crappy and more happy.
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In today's episode, I'm speaking to Lucas Patchett, who is
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one of the co founders of Orange Sky Australia, which
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is a charity that positively connects people living on the
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streets with laundry, showers and most importantly, conversations. I have
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been a volunteer for Orange Sky and you might be
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asking what does this have to do with feeling happy?
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But studies have shown that when you volunteer for a
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cause that you feel passionately about, that you believe in,
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and you can see the positive effects that you were
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having on others, it can drastically increase your own happiness
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and overall satisfaction. I wanted to talk to Lucas about
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his journey of starting Orange Sky, what the benefits for
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him have been personally, and how giving back can actually
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be the best thing you can do for your own
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mental health. You are one of the co founders of
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Orange Sky Laundry along with your best mate Nick Makezi.
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First of all, for our listeners who aren't familiar with
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Orange Sky, can you just explain what it is?
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Absolutely so.
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Orange Guy is a really crazy idea between my best
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mate Nick and I nearly five years ago. Now to
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get two washes too dry is chuck in the back
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of an old van and start driving around and washing
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and drying clothes for homeless people for free. It started
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as a really simple idea, just wanting to improve the
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hygiene standards of the homeless with that one van in Brisbane,
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but then very quickly started to evolve into much much
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more than that. We realized the most important thing our
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vans would do wasn't actually washing drying clothes or provide showers,
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is actually providing a place for people to come and
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have a conversation and be connected with the community. That
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that little one van in here in Brisbane has now
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amplified and grown to now twenty nine vans across Australia
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and one vent over in New Zealand. We've got eighteen
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hundred volunteers who every single week of doing over ten
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times a free laundry, providing of one hundred and fifty
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safe out showers, but most importantly, most simply providing about
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one thy five hundred hours of genuine and non judgmental
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conversation for people in our community who might be ignored,
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who might be walk past for so many hours of
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the day, and for them to have a place to
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come and feel connected, not feel judged, and just have
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a genuine yard with everyday people. It's really a grown
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from that improving high instead it's to positively connecting communities.
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The growth has been phenomenal. Like when you say you're
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I think you're just coming up to a five year anniversary, right,
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and so you said thirty vans now and how many
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what does that equate to in terms of the amount
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of washing and the amount of people you're actually servicing
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and helping.
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Absolutely, I never thought, you know, the edge of twenty
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five that I'd be responsible for, you know, over ten
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tons of laundry happening every single week. That's facilitated by
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eighteen hundred amazing, empathetic, compassionate, amazing volunteers who put their
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lives on hold and do that. We also launched showers
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about halfway through our journey, so provide abou one hundred
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and fifty safe hot mobile showers for people on the streets.
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But what that all equates from, what that boils down
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to is about fifteen hundred hours of genuine and non
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judgmental conversation. So those conversations can be about anything. It's
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really about providing a place for people to feel welcome,
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to feel connected. For some of our friends on the
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street being ignored for nine to nine percent of the day,
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having an opportunity to come together and have a place
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is really really important. So, yeah, fifteen hundred hours of
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conversation takes place every single week, and that I think
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the power of multiplication and having more and more people
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on board has been what's blown definitely blown me away,
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and it's been a privileged to be part of.
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What intrigues me is like, how what gave you this idea?
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How did this actually start? You said it was a
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crazy idea.
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What gave where did the idea come from?
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The story really comes back to the age of when
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Nick and I are about fifteen and our school actually
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ran a food van, So, you know, the age of fifteen,
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were up nice and early every Thursday, our school put
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a breakfast on for people on the streets doing it tough,
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and that was a massive part of the school community
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was actually volunteering on that van. So it wasn't something
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that you just did to tick a box. It was
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really culturally ingrained in the school. So from the age
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of fifteen, I'm having experience and having exposure to people
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who were on the streets, seeing, you know, people two
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hundred meters from where we went to school every day
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sleeping in a park. I can remember, you know, my
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first shift going out and meeting people and being absolutely
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blown away that people could be in that situation and
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that in a place like Brisbane that you know, I
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didn't never thought that I'd be exposed to something like that.
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So that always stuck with us. With both Nick and
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I have something that connected us. Were quite different in
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lots of ways, but quite similar in that sense. So
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we sort of went through school did that a fair bit.
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Left school. I went to unifull time. Nick went to
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work full time. I went overseas for six months, came
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back and had a lot of time my hands didn't
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have UNI, didn't have work or anything like that. Had
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a couple of months and Nick and I was sitting
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in a cafe in Brisbane and we said, you know this,
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there must be a way for us to re engage
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with that community, for us to get a sense of
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that giving back that we used to have at school,
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and it was really really easy at school was another thing.
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So we thought, well, let's do something. Let's do something
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a little bit different. Let's not do another food van
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because that's something that's done really really well. Let's look
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at something else. So started throwing ideas around and I
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think Nick said washing machines, and we sort of looked
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at each other and said, well, I reckon, that's pretty cool,
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and we started looking started searching around. I found that
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it was nowhere else in the world. There was no
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one else had ever put washing machines in the back
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of it and made it work, so we yeap. Essentially
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that was the start of the journey, and it really
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exceeded from I suppose at an early age having exposure
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to homelessness, having exposure to people just around the corner
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who were just like my uncle or my auntie or
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my granddad, who were sleeping on the streets and doing
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it really really tough, and finding a really simple way,
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in a basic way for us to provide a service
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to people who were in that situation.
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And obviously people really took to the idea well.
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I suppose. Another another trial and tribulation was the first
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morning taking the van out. We loaded the machine up.
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We need a generators. Who went and com inced a
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high company to let us borrow a generator, steal it,
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borrow One of the two managed to hook this generator
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up and went down to the park and was actually
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the first morning alongside our old school food van. We
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thought what better place to start than place that we'd
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sort of started our really journeying in homelessness, so turned
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up to the park. We hadn't done any testing on
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the van. We literally just picked the generator up and
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we thought, well we might as well test out in
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the streets, you know, no better place to start, so
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turned up alongside the old school food van. I was
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in charge of finding Nicker was in charge of finding
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the washing r that and I was in charge of
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setting the van up. So again set up, proceedar water
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power waste, turn everything on, and then as I flicked
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the final switch in Sudsey said this massive bang. I thought, well,
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it sounds a little bit weird. But meanwhile Nick had
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found some washing. There's a young guy my name of Jordan,
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had a couple of T shirts, a couple of pairs
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of boardies in his backpack, and he was ready to
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be the first ever wash. So I didn't sound quite right.
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So I caught up the washing machine company, I said,
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and I spoke to this guy, and I always joke
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about this guy. They name of Dan. Now I think
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Dan might be one of the world's angriest laundry technicians.
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But he's a lovely bloke who has helped us out
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a ton over the last five years. But Dan caught
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up down It's like, oh, Dan, the screen, the machine's
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made a bit of a weird noise and now it's
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a CE on the screen. What does that mean? Soas Lucas,
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that's a critical error. You've broken both the machines. I
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told you that this wouldn't work. So that point is like, well,
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We've got Jordan's washing ready to go, We'll just let
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him down. We've been added to that long list of
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people that had let your and down in his life.
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And Dick and I sort of had this like, holy
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crap moment, you know, we need to we need to
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sort this out, we need to fix this. So caught
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up Carol and the big Boss begged and pleaded. She
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grew to give us two more washers, hit the streets
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again the next day and the exact same thing happened,
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and we were so then Jordan was there again, washing machines,
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fired up seee on the screen, and I was like,
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maybe that maybe all these people were right. And we
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sort of had this this moment of terror of saying, well,
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you know this, maybe all these people who said it's
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not going to work are right. So what we did
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again breaking down to bite sized chunks and looked at well,
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how can we work through this? And I think the
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big motivator for us was that Jordan was there again
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the next morning and he's waiting and he was saying,
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you know, I've been looking forward to this for twenty
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four hours to come back, and you know, for us
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to be incredibly determined to not let Jordan down, even
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though we did for that one morning. So went back
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to the drawing board. We're putting way too much water
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pressure in, We're putting the wrong power conversion in. So
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made a few tweaks of the van, hit the streets again.
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The next morning, got ourselves two more washing machines from
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Carolyn and these were definitely the last two that she
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was going to give us, and hit the streets again.
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The next morning there was Jordan fired everything up, turned
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it on and everything started perfectly. And then was at
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that moment it was like we're onto something here. Jordan
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and I had that conversation that I had with him
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changed my life forever. He went to school just up
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the road for me. He studied the same degree as
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me at the same university. He works as an engineer
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for some big firms around Brisbane. But all of a
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sudden he had fallen in some tough times. He became
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disconnected from his family and from his community, and Jordan
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found himself sleeping on the streets and being the first
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wash in our van. So that was definitely a challenging
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time in starting up. But also I think that fuel
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that kept us going was people like Jordan, who were
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trusting us with the only possessions in the world to
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wash and dry them and to bring them back when
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we were a total unknown quantity in this community. So yeah,
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it's definitely a little journey that we went along there,
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but it was definitely worth.
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At the end.
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What I was most interested in what you were saying, Lucas,
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is that it's not about the washing, It's about the conversation.
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And you know, I do want to also get to talking.
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To you, obviously about the power of volunteering, the benefits
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to volunteering. The shows called crapy are happy and there
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is so much happy to be found in giving back
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to your community and making a contribution, and often that
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is directly related to the impact that you have specifically
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on individuals, and that conversation aspect and connecting with somebody
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and knowing that you're having a positive impact. So from
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your experience, what has been how has it personally changed you?
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I think Orange Scott has absolutely changed my life forever
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and much for the better in terms of I think
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everything from how I have perspective on different things and
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how you know, being out and shift I think is
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such a great grounding thing for me in how many
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other things are going on in my life and in
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the world, But then you head out and you have
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a you just completely switch off from technology and everything
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and you just see on an orange chair and have
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a conversation with someone. It can be a great grounder,
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a great perspective check, I think for myself and I