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A listener production.
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Hey guys, you're listening to Crappy to Happy. I'm cash done.
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I'm a clinical and coaching psychologist, a mindfulness meditation teacher,
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and author of the Crappy to Happy books. In this series,
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we look at all of the factors that might be
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making you feel crappy and give you the tools and
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the techniques that will help you to overcome them. In
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each episode, I introduce you to interesting, inspiring, intelligent people
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who are experts in their field, and my hope is
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that they will help you feel less crappy and more happy.
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Nat kring Goodis is a doctor of Chinese medicine, acupuncturist, author, speaker,
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and a natural fertility expert. And she is a champion
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and advocate of women's reproductive health with the aim of
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preventing problems before they arise. Natt is an absolute wealth
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of information when it comes to women's health, and she
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was so ready to dispense the simple, practical advice that
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I love, which made it an absolute joy to have
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her on the show. Doctor Nat crinkis welcome, Such a
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pleasure to have you on the show.
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Thank you for having me excited to be here.
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Yeah, I'm excited to talk to you. So, Nat, you
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are a doctor of Chinese medicine and you specialize particularly
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in fertility and women's reproductive health. Is that correct?
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That's correct. That's definitely how I made my name in
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the industry some fifteen years ago, when there were many
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women banging on my door asking for help because they
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weren't getting answers to the questions that they were asking
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and no one had No one had solutions, and I
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didn't have solutions. Yeah, I was like, I don't really know.
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You know, the conditions that we were seeing were a
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result of modern issues like stress, but there was no
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answer and there wasn't a lot of research into it
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at the time. I think the level of stress and
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pressure that we live under nowadays is far more than
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ever before. So I resisted it for a really long time.
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I was like, I'm not equipped to treat this, you know,
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I don't know what I'm doing. I didn't get trained
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in these symptoms and problems and issues, and so eventually
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I realized, well, no one was doing it, so maybe
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someone needed to.
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That's so interesting. So what sort of just out of interest,
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So what sort of things were you trained in and
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were you treating.
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Yes, So I mean when you do a I've done
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several degrees to get to where I was at, and
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nothing was looking at these symptoms of say infertility or
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estrogen dominance, or the role that chemicals were playing for women,
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seeing symptoms of missing periods, all sorts of reproductive issues,
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pcos syindimetrios has these sorts of things. There wasn't a
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lot of information yet we knew it was a problem.
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So you then went and educated yourself pretty much so
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that you could help.
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At the time, like I said, there wasn't a lot
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of answers. We knew that these were problems, but we
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didn't really have reasons as to or not scientific greeds
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or yet proven reasons. So it's a different conversation nowadays.
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But the difference is I guess, yeah, fifteen years on,
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it's really interesting to see where that's come and it's
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been such a pleasure to play a role for so
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many women that Yeah. Eventually I was like, look, I
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don't know, but let's experiment, and so I asked the
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patient's permission at the time to do that, and then
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we started getting really great results and that just led
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to an influx of women you know, into my space,
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and you know, which has really led me to this
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absolute questioning of hang on a minute, what happens if
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we actually started to fix it before it was broken?
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What happens if we actually started to educate not just
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women at the time of fertility, but sort of teach
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them that fertility is not just about babies. It's actually
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about a thriving reproductive system from the minute that you
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start to change with your hormones. So that to me
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is a very different conversation to be having. But really,
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when I'm very passionate about it, women is educating women
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of kind of all ages and stages because we all
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have a responsibility in that.
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Well, I'm glad you said that, because that I was
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planning to ask you good all about that. But I
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am interested now to know kind of the women who
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walk through your door now, for example, these are women
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generally who are struggling to get pregnant. Is that still primarily.
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I would say it's probably about fifty to fifty nowadays,
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And at the beginning I would have said maybe eighty
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percent of our patients for fertility patients. I guess that's
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for several reasons. When we're more educated, so we can
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bring in lifestyle changes before you might seek the help
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of a practitioner a professional. Two, I think there's a
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lot more people doing what I once did, which is
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great because there's so many women that need that help
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and support. And three because I do think that now
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I am reaching out to various ages and stages, So
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we're seeing a lot of a lot of things like
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premature puberty. You know, young girls starting to reach puberty
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from a really early age, and how do we set
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them up to help with that? And again all the
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result of our modern lifestyle. So we're seeing and a
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lot more in demetrious and pcos than ever before. So really,
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I think women are keen to get their hormones on
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track earlier, which is great, But the fertility part still
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plays a role, and not everybody still understands or has
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this connection between their environment, whether that's their external environment
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or the internal environment being there, how their organs behave
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or misbehave, and how that impacts our fertility. And there
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are still misconceptions around that. We still think we can
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push our bodies to the absolute limit and expect a baby,
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and it's not how it works. And you know, I
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see patients all the time where I'll say there is
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actually physically no space in your lifestyle for a child.
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Your body hears that, sees that, knows that, and we've
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got to create that. Now, that's difficult too. If you've
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been trying to have a baby for a period of time,
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what do we do We add more to the mix
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because we don't want to think about it, We don't
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want to feel it, we don't want to go through that.
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Why am I not falling pregnant? I'm not good enough?
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You know, this whole internal dialogue that we can bring in,
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and I see it time and time again. We start
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to push away the very thing that we want.
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Interesting, isn't that the whole psychology.
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Of Absolutely But you know, Chinese medicine definitely subscribes to
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the fact that we are fifty percent physical and fifty
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percent emotional when it comes to treating any health condition,
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and so we will treat both when we're treating a patient.
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And I think that's where the magic lies in Chinese medicine.
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It realizes and understands that there you can't separate those
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two things. Sure, you've got to have the fundamentals, you've
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got to have the right nutrients and you've got to
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have the right hormones and the right messages. But if
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that's being slightly skewed because of your thought processes and
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you know, those thoughts we don't even know we're having,
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that can be it can be the reason. And that's
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hard as well, you know, And no one wants to
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be told to relax.
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No, that's confronting for people too, isn't it.
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It is very confronting. You know. I will often see
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women saying, you mean to tell me, you're telling you're
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telling me that this is a result of my thoughts,
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my behavior, Like I wouldn't consciously do that, and I
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know that. But if you're ticking all of the boxes,
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and let's say, your nutrition's great, you're removing your body,
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you're exercising, you've you know, you've adapted a work life
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balance that is supportive of what you're trying to achieve.
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I said nutrition. Your sleep is great, you know you're
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getting the right amount of sleep, but you're still not
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falling pregnant. There's usually some type of an emotional issue
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or situation that's going on that needs to be addressed.
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And again it's the one that it's the last thing
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we want to address, because it's often the hardest thing
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in a dress.
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Yeah, so true. You mentioned just then PCOS endometriosis. I
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was to say the thing that I probably see a
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lot in the communities that I work in and as
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well as my own business. I'm obviously the psychologist in Tific,
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so it's a huge group of women online trying to
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live a healthier lifestyle. PCOS comes up all the time.
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And the other thing, just on a different level altogether,
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is just things like managing hormonal food cravings, almost like
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uncontrollable food cravings. So what kind of things I guess
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they're two very different questions, I know, But what kinds
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of things can we be doing to manage to manage
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our hormonal health?
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I think what we need, whether it's PCs, endometriosis, ad inmiosis,
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whatever it is, what we need to appreciate is genetically,
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that's our predisposition. Can't change our genes, but we can
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change the way that our body behaves, and we can
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change the way that you know we can epigenetics is
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you know, we're so lucky that we're living at this
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time and there's so much research available and we understand
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that our environment very much influences the way that our
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genes behave. Now I talk to this also from another perspective,
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just to throw Yeah, I have a little boy with
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a genetic condition cystic fibrosis. So I'm wildly, wildly interested
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in genetics and how I can manipulate his genes. And
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I can see how amazing that can be for him.
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If I look at somebody who's got an absolute, known
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genetic defect, why can't that work for anybody? So that's
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where I translate that over. I'm like, if I can
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get his body working optimally, I can get anybody's body
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working optimally. Really, nothing is fixed or permanent. So yes,
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your diagnosis is your diagnosis, and that is your genetics,
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but we need to look at everything else that we
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do around that to influence our body to behave basically,
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and so I say that we're kind of like a
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human petri dish. You know, you did that experiment in
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science or biology in your ten where you put bacteria
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in a peat tradition, one went in an incubator and
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one went on the window sill, and what grew was different.
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And we can look at our genes a little bit
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like that. The environment that we put it in will
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influence how that plays out. So for PCOS specifically, yes,
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it's genetic, we know that, but there's certain things that
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definitely influence the way that our body responds to our hormones.
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Generally at the core of PCOS is inflammation, insulin resistance,
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and some type of liver and gut sort of issues
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or discrepancies. So if we know that that's the case,
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we can start to bring in some little hacks that
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really work PCOS because of this insulin resistant pattern, it
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responds if you just said to me that what's the
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one thing, and you know how hard is it to
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answer the one thing, because there's never one thing, right,
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But if you said to me, what's the one thing,
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I would say intermittent fasting for women with PCOS, hands down,
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it's really unbelievable. I resisted intermittent fasting for our very,
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very long time, I have to say, because everything I
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had learned in terms of hormones and the way our
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bodies worked, that was ridiculous. As far as I understood.
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I had a patient once and stand out right, so
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she'd had a trauma, petuitory had been damaged, and we
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need our petuitary to help us ovulate, and so she
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hadn't had a period since she'd had that trauma. And
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she came to me in the clinic and she said,
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I'd like to get my period back. And I actually,
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probably for the first time ever after fifteen years in
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clinical practice, I really laughed. I said, well, that's going
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to take us more miracle because if you've actually got
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structural damage, I don't know if I can help with
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you getting a period. We can help your body to
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be healthier, we can balance your hormones more, but period
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is the icing on the cake here, and I'm not
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sure anyway, So we started to adopt some things, and
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she'd done some reading and she said, I really want
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to try into mint fasting. And I was like, oh gosh, look,
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I always work with what the patient wants to do,
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and I love it when they're motivated to do something,
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so long as it's not dangerous. So I was like, Okay,
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I don't know how that's going to work, but okay,
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let's bring it into the mix. And so we bought
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all this into the mix and I we never forget.
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It was just a couple of days before Christmas and
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she emailed me, and she said, you're never gonna believe it.
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I got my period, and I was like, what in
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the world, you have got to be kidding me. After
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many many years, let's say, fifteen years of not having
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a period, having to have two children that were conceived
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via IVF because she didn't have a menstrual cycle, and
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she got a period back. And so it then, again,
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as most things do for our patients, led me on
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another path of investigating as to why would that be,
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why would that help her get her period back? And