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A listener production. Hi, Welcome to Crappy to Happy with
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Tiff and Cass, where we take you from feeling pretty
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black crappy to feeling awesome and happy with tools and
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tips and things that you can do, like right now,
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to feel better. Last episode we talked about perfectionism. Today
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we're going to talk about exercise, how good it is
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for your mind and your body. Yeah.
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Great, And this, I guess this topic is really right
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up your altit. You're the one who's the athlete, You're the.
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One who's the six don black belt and have all
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of the personal training experience. So I'm really keen to
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hear from you actually today about how you have made
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exercise such an integral part of your life. And you know,
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for me, I'm a person who I have to admit
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I've probably always been reasonably active, but I've dipped in
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a out of gym memberships and you know, online programs
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or walking, and so you know, I'm really keen to
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hear from you. How did you get involved in personal
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training and exercise and how do you make it part
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of your life?
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Well, I was born into an active family. My parents
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are both fitness instructors. Taekwondo instructors. My father he was
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an Olympic coach, so it was all around being healthy
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and active. But the difference there was an emphasis on
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enjoyment and fun. So exercise was never about burning calories.
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It was about having fun and that for me was
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doing ballet and diving, and I did a little bit
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of gymnastics and of course some martial arts and athletics,
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but I did whatever was fun. And there was a
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real emphasis growing up from my parents about the function
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of your body, how cool it is. So it wasn't
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about what your body looks like. It's about how hard
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you can do a front kick, how fast you can box,
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how high you can jump, how you know fast you
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can run. And if you think about taekwondo, one of
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the beautiful parts of taekwondo is we wear a dobok,
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a traditional dough bok. You're covered from neck to toe,
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and it's not about what your body looks like. It's
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about the functionality and the athleticism. So that's where I
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was coming from, and it was a surprise to me
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to go on the show like The Biggest Loser and
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be coach where people sort of exercise as a chore, Oh,
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I have to work out, and I was like, it's
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so fun, and they thought there was something wrong with me.
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But I was determined to teach people how to have
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fun with exercise, and that's what I wanted to bring
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to it, that it's not about punishment, that it can
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be part of your life, and you have to be flexible.
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That's why my on tip xo dot com I offer
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for workouts at are five minutes or half an hour
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because you can get results in five minutes, and the
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benefits of exercise I've found to be amazing, not just yeah,
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you can manage your weight and you can change the
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way your body looks, sure, but gosh, it boosts your
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mood and it creates focus.
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It absolutely boosts your mood.
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In fact, from my perspective is that, you know, thirty
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minutes of exercise moderate exercise is proven to be a
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treatment for depression as effective as medication. So getting out,
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getting out and doing a thirty minute you know, brisk
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walk regularly can actually improve your mood, you know, out
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of sight for people with clinical symptoms of depression. The
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problem is that for people with clinical symptoms of depression,
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and not even just depression, but just general every day
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sed entry people, busy people finding thirty minutes to get
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out that can it seems like a simple ask, but
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for a lot of people it's not. So I think
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that's and that's a bit of the crappy thing. I
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think we all know that it's really good for us,
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and we can talk about the benefits of it, but
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it's when you're not doing it and feeling like it's
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a chore or feeling like you need to be doing
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more of it and you can't do more of it,
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like how do we make it work? So you found
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something for you that was really fun.
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And I always say you have to find the right
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fit for you. And some people it's dancing. Sometimes it's
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just going for a run because they love that repetitive
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just going through nature and being outdoors and that freedom.
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And other people will try, I don't know, rollerblading. I
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mean that's making a comeback at the.
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Moment your friend's doing that. They love us.
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There's so many different ways to be active, but you
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really do have to find the right fit for you.
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And as a trainer, I won't accept that you don't
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have twenty minutes a day to be active, be like
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with meditation, because yeah, I don't buy that, and because
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as soon as people go, I don't have the time.
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Did you see Game of Throne? Yeah, I've watched all
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the series. Have you seen Veople all these new shows?
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You've seen all that, I might, Well, you've had time
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to watch all. You're right across Facebook. I hear every
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excuse out there. It's raining, I can't go outside, I
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don't have the right active weear, I can't wear the
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right active wear.
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Don't give me that. Everybody's got the right accus where.
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Now that you do, Now it's super fashionable, isn't it
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to wear it out to brunch? Perhaps? And I hear
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things like, you know, there's childcare issues, there's this, there's that.
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But I've created a program tiffex so where you can
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work out in your living room, Like there's so much
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you can do from home to be healthy and fit.
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And I just think the benefits out way not being motivated.
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I think that you're right that a lot of that
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is excuses, and really what it is about is not
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finding that, not having that sparkle that impetus to get
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out and do it. And I think the fun thing
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that you mentioned is really important because a lot of us,
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especially if you're not fit, you're very fit, you've always
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been very fit. But for somebody who's not, who either
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hasn't never been fit, or has never been fit, or
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who has lost their fitness, then getting started again can
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feel really difficult.
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I've got that all ahead of me as soon as
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this baby comes out.
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It's really hard to get started. And again, we hold
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ourselves to these standards that I should, you know, should
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be doing this, or I should, and you know, it's hard.
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It's actually physically uncomfortable if you're not fit.
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Yeah, absolutely, to start exercising, you've got to sit.
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With that discomfort for a little bit. But that's why
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I think one of the best things you can do
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is find support, whether that's just talking to your partner
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or finding a group or you know, even a friend.
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You don't need a personal trainer, you just need a
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friend to help hold you accountable, to say, okay, that's
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your goal, let's go, let's do it together.
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Yeah, you know, I was thinking about this. The two
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times that I recall I've always been reasonably active, Like
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as I said, I dip in and out. But the
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two times that I have most consistently exercised in my life.
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Were two different, separate periods when I was living in Sydney.
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When I was living in Adelaide.
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In Sydney, I would meet a friend three mornings a
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week at six am and we would walk around the
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Bay for people in inner West Sydney. The Bay run
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is about a seven kilometer loop and neither of us
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wanted to be in the cancil money be the cancel,
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so we would be lying in bed like willing the
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other person to cancel, but we would not cancel, and
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so there was that.
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We did that for a long long time.
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friend and we would go to the gym on a
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Saturday morning. So two very different exercises, but the common
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factor was meeting a friend and not wanting to let
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that person down.
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I am one of the best and.
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Would talk talk talk talk. It was fun.
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It's fun and it's social. And one of the reasons
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I love taekwondo is because it's a class, it's very
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social and you work with another person, so it's lots
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of contact. I love that. But also I'm a personal
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trainer that knows every trick in the book, and I
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still have training buddies and training friends. I lack motivation
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and sometimes I am human, So I think finding a
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support crew is really important. That's where you know, finding
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a program or a trainer or just a friend, your sister,
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someone to help you through can be really helpful. And
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also just recalling those benefits. You know, you can combat
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a plethora of health issues through exercising, like not just
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type two diabetes and metabolic syndrome and arthritis, and you know,
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you can improve your posture and energy levels and you
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know so much can be benefited. It is medicinal. It's
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about prevention, and as you get older it is so important.
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of how we look, but a little trip to the
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doctors and getting some numbers and you're like, okay, I
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really need And now like I was thinking about exercise
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in terms of fertility, pregnancy, looking after a baby, like
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it's really important being healthy mom. I you know, I
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don't have time to get sick.
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I saw something on a clip on Facebook once which
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was so it was profound to me at the time.
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It was about you know, it was a young personal
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trainer saying wish I could remember, but he was basically saying,
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we exercise.
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You know, not to be fit at the gym. We exercise.
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You know, when you're in your.
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Older years, you want to be able to like lift yourself,
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have the body strength to lift yourself, like off the toilet.
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the ability to actually support yourself and move and retain
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your independence and mobility into your later years. I thought, wow,
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that like that's what he was lucky. It was his
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life's calling, like he had made this mission. It was
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so not about his biceps, and it was so about
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helping people to live well into their older years.
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And that's something I am so aware of. And I
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think people come at you with wanting a six pack
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or now it's all about the Kardashian balm, and you know,
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body parts change like fashion for personal trainers too. And
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back in the day, personal training wasn't a glamorous vocation.
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Now it's like there's Instagram personal trainers, and I think, geez.
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For me, it's always been about longevity. I want to
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be around for my child, for my husband, and now
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seeing my parents who started out as fitness instructors and
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they're sixty. You can see my mom on TIFXO. She
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does a bit of it with me. They're lean, they
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say healthy, like my mum's sixty and had all the
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health checks as you do regularly, and we were all nervous.
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We're thinking, sixty, you know what's going to come back.
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She was fine. But they're the moments that exercise and
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being healthy pay off. Yeah, And I see it as
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just a non negotiable and we have to get over
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the excuses and find something that works and work at
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it because it's not a quick fix. And there are
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days where you'll exercise and will be fun, and then
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there are days like you get up and you go
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to work to earn money to pay the mortgage or whatever.
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And there are training days where you just have to
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do something simple like go for a walk, go for
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a run. Perhaps it's twenty squats, twenty push ups, twenty lunges,
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and you just get it done because you know that
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you're giving to this body that has to carry you
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through for your entire life.
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And I think that we're kind of touching on the
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stuff that we talked about with the diet episode, eating
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food to nourish our bodies, not as punishment or not
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to achieve a particular body shape or weight. And similarly
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with exercise, what you're saying is we want to be
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moving our bodies to maintain our health and our longevity,
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not as punishment or some sort of strict thing we
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need to do to be better or to fix ourselves,
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or because we need because there's something inherently wrong with us. Actually,
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it's a self active self love and self care self
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care to find something, you know, to move our bodies
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and support our mood and our yes, metabolism and everything.
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And so many people come to me saying, Okay, I
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need to lose twenty kilos, and I say good. But
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we're going to get fit first, and weight loss is
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going to be a symptom of our fitness. So we're
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going to concentrate on the fit, not the fat. Because
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as soon as you start training to lose weight, gosh,
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it's defeating and depressing and it becomes a chore. Yeah,
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but if you concentrate on fitness goals, Okay, first I'm