Crappy to Happy

Personal Growth & Healing Episodes

All things personal healing, overcoming trauma and understanding how past experiences impact present experience.
Oct. 30, 2025

Feeling Lost? How to Reconnect with a Sense of Purpose

Understanding what gives you a sense of meaning and purpose in life is crucial to wellbeing, but we all have times where we feel lost or directionless. In today's ep, I'm sharing Michael Steger's Meaning Framework, and its th...
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Feeling Lost? How to Reconnect with a Sense of Purpose
Oct. 13, 2025

How to be less "Busy & Wrecked" with Dermot Whelan

Dermot Whelan was one of Ireland's most successful radio hosts and television presenters for over 20 years. When he had a panic attack on the way to performing at a comedy festival, he decided to put aside his scepticism and ...
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How to be less "Busy & Wrecked" with Dermot Whelan
Aug. 4, 2025

Dealing With Anger: Healthy ways to manage your feelings

Anger is an emotion we often struggle to navigate. In this solo episode, I'm sharing the recent experience of one of my clients, who was grappling with intense feelings of anger. As a psychologist, I recognise that anger ofte...
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Dealing With Anger: Healthy ways to manage your feelings
July 24, 2025

How to Save Your Relationship with Tarah Kerwin, Couples Therapist

Couples Therapist, Tarah Kerwin opens up about how her past trauma affected her relationship with her husband EJ, also a therapist. Despite their professional expertise, they both realised they needed to address their persona...
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How to Save Your Relationship with Tarah Kerwin, Couples Therapist
May 21, 2025

Hidden Factors that Cause Burnout: Are You Contributing?

Today, we're diving into the ever-relevant topic of burnout, which has become a pervasive issue for many people. I want to unpack how personal traits such as perfectionism, people-pleasing tendencies, and unrealistic self-exp...
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Hidden Factors that Cause Burnout: Are You Contributing?
May 14, 2025

Reconnecting in Relationships: How to Bridge the Emotional Gap

Feeling disconnected in relationships is a theme that's been surfacing a lot lately in my coaching sessions, and I think it’s something that many of us can relate to. In this episode, I dive into the common struggles women fa...
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Reconnecting in Relationships: How to Bridge the Emotional Gap
May 4, 2025

Mindfulness... and then what? A new audio series!

We're kicking off our brand new series for paid subscribers, "Mindfulness... and then what?", where we'll dive deep into how to truly incorporate mindfulness into your life for real benefits. I know, I know—mindfulness is one...
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Mindfulness... and then what? A new audio series!
May 1, 2025

How to Show Up as the Best Version of YOU

Today’s episode dives deep into a crucial question: who are you when you’re at your best? I’m inviting you to explore the qualities that make you shine and how to create the conditions in your life that allow you to be at you...
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How to Show Up as the Best Version of YOU
April 8, 2025

How I was Recruited into a Cult with Carli McConkey

Carli McConkey was a naive 21yr old seeking self-improvement when she was recruited into a new age cult where she spent over 13yrs trapped and enslaved. Carli bravely shares her experience of being manipulated, coerced, and a...
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How I was Recruited into a Cult with Carli McConkey
March 4, 2025

Free yourself from 'Good Girl' conditioning with Dr Michelle McQuaid

Dr. Michelle McQuaid joins me in this episode to dive deep into the concept of "good girl conditioning" and how it impacts women's mental health and well-being. We explore the societal expectations that shape our beliefs from...
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Free yourself from 'Good Girl' conditioning with Dr Michelle McQuaid
Feb. 25, 2025

How to Heal your Wounded Parts & Step into your Wisest Self

This week, we're diving into parts work, with an introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and how you can apply it as a tool for self-healing. We'll explore how recognising and connecting with different parts of ...
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How to Heal your Wounded Parts & Step into your Wisest Self
Dec. 19, 2024

Wrapping up 2024 + My ADHD Diagnosis

In this final solo episode of 2024, Cass reflects on the importance of recognising personal achievements over the past year, emphasising the need to focus on gains rather than gaps. She shares plans for a new subscriber versi...
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Wrapping up 2024 + My ADHD Diagnosis
Dec. 11, 2024

Healing Trauma using MDMA with Rebecca Huntley

This week, Cass talks with author and social researcher, Rebecca Huntley, who shares her experience of childhood trauma, traditional therapy, and how she ultimately found herself seeking MDMA therapy from an underground heale...
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Healing Trauma using MDMA with Rebecca Huntley
Dec. 5, 2024

How to stop being a people pleaser

In this episode, Cass discusses the challenges of people pleasing, especially during the holiday season. She explores the roots of this behaviour, including childhood experiences, personality traits, and societal expectations...
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How to stop being a people pleaser
Nov. 25, 2024

Surrogacy, Friendship, and the Power of Two with Lisa Messenger & Sarah Megginson

This week, Cass is joined by Lisa Messenger and Sarah Megginson, two colleagues and friends whose lives were changed forever when Sarah offered to be a gestational surrogate for Lisa. In this episode, we discuss Lisa's gruell...
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Surrogacy, Friendship, and the Power of Two with Lisa Messenger & Sarah Megginson
Oct. 30, 2024

Let's Talk about Grief with Imogen Carn

Imogen shares her experience of losing her mum in tragic circumstances, and the profound impact it had on her, and how co-creating the 'Good Mourning' podcast and community with her friend, Sally Douglas quite literally saved...
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Let's Talk about Grief with Imogen Carn
Sept. 10, 2024

How to reset your nervous system with Jessica Maguire

Cass talks with Jessica McGuire, a physiotherapist and author of The Nervous System Reset, about the importance of the nervous system in physical and emotional health. Jessica explains the role of the vagus nerve in regulatin...
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How to reset your nervous system with Jessica Maguire
Sept. 2, 2024

Do you have an "Upper Limit Problem"?

In this solo episode, Cass discusses the concept of upper limit problems as described in the book 'The Big Leap' by Gay Hendricks. Upper limit problems refer to self-imposed limitations that prevent individuals from achieving...
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Do you have an "Upper Limit Problem"?
Aug. 9, 2024

Rewriting Your Story: The Power of Narrative Identity

In this solo episode, Cass explores the concept of narrative identity theory and how the stories we tell ourselves about our lives shape our sense of self and well-being. She discusses the importance of personal agency, belon...
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Rewriting Your Story: The Power of Narrative Identity
July 30, 2024

How to cultivate unshakeable self-confidence

In this episode, Cass recaps what she covered in her live online workshop, "How to Cultivate Unshakeable Self-Confidence".She outlines the key difference between self-doubt and the imposter experience, which runs much deeper,...
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How to cultivate unshakeable self-confidence
July 18, 2024

Why you self-sabotage: Competing Commitments

In this solo episode, Cass shares one of the common reasons people struggle to make progress on the things they say that want to achieve. "Competing commitments", sometimes called competing desires or conflicting values, are ...
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Why you self-sabotage: Competing Commitments
July 4, 2024

Motherhood & Mental Illness with Ariane Beeston

Cass talks with fellow psychologist, Ariane Beeston about Ariane's experience of severe postpartum depression and psychosis. They discuss the feelings of failure that can prevent new mothers from asking for help, the lack of ...
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Motherhood & Mental Illness with Ariane Beeston
June 12, 2024

Why I'm giving up drinking (again)

In this solo ep, Cass shares her decision to take an extended break from alcohol after quitting drinking for (almost) two years in 2020 and then taking it up again in 2022.She highlights all the best things she experienced du...
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Why I'm giving up drinking (again)
June 3, 2024

The new weight loss drugs: Magic solution or magical illusion? with Johann Hari

Johann Hari began taking Ozempic in 2023, and subsequently spent 12 months traveling the world talking to experts about every aspect of the obesity crisis and the new weight loss medications which offer a solution to the mill...
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The new weight loss drugs: Magic solution or magical illusion? with Johann Hari